revial: My "click" moment came when I realized how bad the game is at auto selecting targets and my decision to start utilizing the alt button to lock onto targets of my choice. Combat became about a 100 x easier after that.
Also, constant use of Quen. ;p
You know, I read the manual, I honestly did not see the 'alt' key mention anywhere in it. I wouldn't have even known about it unless I read about it on the forums... either irritating or I'm just a bad reader.
But, for me, once I figured out the shield spell and the trap spell, the game became way more fun. It allowed me some time to figure out the mechanics and dance away from the opponents, close in with a long-distance light attack and proceed according to the situatino.