Why aren't they releasing a date? Simple when they did it for the first patch, the backlash from why it wasn't released when they said was pretty bad.
anyway the patch 1.3 thread has plenty of people who, like the OP are disappointed if not disgruntled, which usually happens when hype doesn't live up to reality.
I doubt they will change their policy prior to 1.3's release but as I suggested in the other thread, I hope they break up patches, to be smaller and more frequent. When making broad changes to multiple aspects of a program, more glitches are created holding up the fix release. My personal fear, is that some personnel that would have been handling these fixes have been shifted to working on the port. Like the OP I'm disappointed, I know the port decision was made to coincide with E3, but honestly, I think they would have been better served holding off until the PC version was stable. The adult in me understands their decision, but the paranoia keeps whispering "Don't you feel like their using you to beta test the console version" LOL.
I like the stances the company has taken with regard to DRM and DLC, and I want them to be successful, but upper management should look into this release as a debacle, apologize to the customers, and lay out a post release quality control process. As great as the game is, this release may have cost potential future sales by negativity or frustration from people who paid for a game that was unplayable. It's a greater tragedy when a great game is rushed to a bad release, than to never have been published it at all.